



五種愛的語言
肯定的言語
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舉例:
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對祖父母:「阿爺/阿嫲,你煮嘅餸永遠係最好食嘅,謝謝你!」或「謝謝你幫忙照顧小朋友,有你在我們很安心。」
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對孩子:「你今天主動收拾玩具,真的很棒、很有責任感!」
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對伴侶:「謝謝你今天下班還幫忙分擔家務,辛苦你了。」
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精心的時刻
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舉例:
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對祖父母:定期陪他們散步、聽他們講過去的故事、一起喝早茶或看舊相簿。
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對孩子:每天抽 15 分鐘放下手機,專心陪他們讀繪本或玩遊戲。
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全家:舉辦跨代聚會,如祖孫共讀、家庭野餐。
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真心的禮物
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舉例:
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對祖父母:買他們喜歡吃的糕點、送保健品,或讓孫子女送上手繪卡片(對長輩而言是無價之寶)。
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對孩子:完成目標後送贈小貼紙或獎狀。
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對伴侶:買對方喜歡吃的點心。
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服務的行動
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舉例:
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對祖父母:主動幫忙教他們使用智能手機、幫忙搬重物或修理家電。
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對伴侶/孩子:主動分擔家務、準備早餐。
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身體的接觸
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舉例:
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對祖父母:見面時的擁抱、牽著長輩的手過馬路、幫他們捶捶背或揉揉肩膀。
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對孩子:睡前擁抱、摸摸頭、牽手散步。
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The 5 Love Languages
Words of Affirmation
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For example:
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Grandparents: "Grandma/Grandpa, your food is the best!" or "Thank you for taking care of the kids today."
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Kids: "You tidy up your toys! Great job!"
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Partner: "Thank you for helping clean up tonight."
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Quality Time
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For example:
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Grandparents: Accompany them for a walk, listen to their stories, or look at old photos together.
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Kids: Put away your phone for 15 minutes and play with them.
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Family: Have a fun family day, e.g. a picnic in the park.
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Receiving Gifts
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For example:
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Grandparents: Bring them their favorite snack or a drawing from the grandchildren.
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Kids: Give them a sticker when they do something good.
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Partner: Buy them a favorite drink or treat.
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Acts of Service
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For example:
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Grandparents: Teach them how to use their phone or fix things at home.
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Partner & Kids: Help with chores, or prepare breakfast.
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Physical Touch
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For example:
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Grandparents: Give them a warm hug, hold their hand, or rub their shoulders.
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Kids: Give them a big hug before bed or hold hands when you walk.
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Partner: Give a kiss before you leave.
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